Resident Spotlight: Mary Ray
Long before Mary Ray, resident of The Harbor at Hickory Hill, spent her nights working at AT&T and her days caring for her young son, she learned what it meant to put in a full day’s work on her family’s farm in Wetumpka, Alabama. Born on July 12, 1932, Mary was the second child and only girl in a farming family. She had an older brother and two younger ones, and there was plenty of work to go around. Everyone did their share.
The family grew peanuts and corn, milked cows so they could sell the milk, and cared for a lively assortment of animals. There were ducks, horses, cows, mules, chickens and, of course, dogs. Mary’s childhood was shaped by fields that needed tending, animals that needed feeding and chores that did not wait until someone felt like doing them.
Her parents set the example. Mary’s father had lost a leg to polio, but it didn’t slow him down and he was still able to work the farm. Her mother worked hard beside him, doing what was needed to keep the family and farm going. Their example stayed with Mary. From them, she learned that difficult circumstances did not erase responsibility and that each person’s effort mattered.
By age 16, Mary had taken on another responsibility. She and one of her brothers helped run a country store. Behind the counter, she gained experience serving customers and keeping up with the daily work of a small business. It was one more place where Mary proved herself capable, dependable and unafraid of hard work.
Mary graduated from Wetumpka High School, then later traveled to Mississippi to marry Robert. That trip to Mississippi marked the beginning of their life together. They welcomed one son, Glenn, and when he was two years old, the family moved from Wetumpka to Prattville.
Prattville became home. Mary and her family have lived here ever since, and for as long as Mary has lived in the community, she has been a member of Camellia Baptist Church. Through the passing years, the church remained a steady part of her life and a place where she could practice the faith that helped ground her.
Mary brought the same determination she learned on the farm into her working years. She spent 42 years with AT&T, but the number alone does not tell the full story of what those years required. When Glenn was young, Mary worked the night shift so she could stay home with him during the day. While much of the town slept, she was at work. When morning came, she returned home to care for her son.
There were seasons when one job was not enough, so Mary often worked more than one. She also worked for Jess Jordan, a local insurance agency. The job gave her memories beyond the office, as Jess Jordan often took his employees on trips. Those outings brought a welcome change of scenery to a life filled with work and family responsibilities.
After 42 years at AT&T, Mary retired, but she was not ready to sit still. She went to work at Glennwood Daycare, where she spent another five years caring for children. Even after a career spanning more than four decades, she continued showing up, staying busy and giving her time to others.
Hard work may be the strongest thread running through Mary’s story, but there is also a little sparkle woven in. At some point in her younger years, she won a beauty contest. Her family is no longer certain which contest it was or when it took place, but they remember that she won. It is a fitting detail in the story of a woman whose strength and beauty have always gone far deeper than appearances.
Mary’s life can be seen in the small moments that filled her days: the sound of milk hitting the pail on the family farm, the activity of a country store run with her brother, the quiet drive to a night shift and the mornings spent at home with Glenn. It can be seen in 42 years at one company, five more years at a daycare and decades of worship at Camellia Baptist Church.
Again and again, Mary did what needed to be done. She followed the example set by a father who farmed despite losing his leg to polio and a mother who worked tirelessly beside him. She carried their work ethic from Wetumpka to Prattville, from the farm to AT&T and from motherhood into retirement.
Mary Ray’s story is not built around a single moment. It is built from thousands of ordinary days lived with uncommon resolve. Through work, faith and devotion to family, she created a life as steady and enduring as the values planted in her on that Wetumpka farm.
Located a short distance from Montgomery, Ala., in beautiful Prattville, Ala., The Harbor at Hickory Hill, with 43 apartments, is known for its experienced caregivers, lively atmosphere, and exceptional service. The team at The Harbor at Hickory Hill goes out of their way to make their residents feel at home in a friendly, caring, spacious, and well-appointed community.
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